Self-esteem Issues for Men and Teen Boys

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Podcasts with Big Contact



MensSelfesteem.com has teamed up with Big Contact to bring you our podcasts all in one spot right on our website. Self-esteem, Confidence, Relationships, Jealousy, and More! Just go to http://www.mensselfesteem.com/selfesteempodcast.html. Check it out! Here is an example below:

Monday, March 17, 2008

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

I need professional help, but what kind?



There is a huge difference in distinctions for help-professionals. The table below shows those basic difference. Most people don't know it, but 80% of them need a life coach more then anything else.



Therapy




Mentoring



Consulting



Coaching

Deals with a person's past and trauma, and seeks healingDeals mostly with succession training and seeks to help
someone to do what you do
Deals mostly with problems and seeks to provide information
(expertise, strategy, methodologies) to solve problems
Deals mostly with a person's present and seeks to guide
them into a more desirable future
Doctor-patient relationship (therapist has the answers)Older/wiser-younger/less experienced relationship (mentor
has the answers
Expert person with problem relationship (consultant has the
answers)
Co-creative, equal partnership (coach helps clientdiscover
their own answers)
Assumes many emotions are symptom of something wrongLimited to emotional response of the mentoring parameters
(succession, etc.)
Does not normally address or deal with emotions
(informational only)
Assumes emotions are natural and normalizes them
The therapist diagnosis, then provides professional
expertise and guidelines to give clients a path to healing
The mentor allows you to observe his/her behavior and
expertise, will answer questions, and provide guidance and wisdom for the
stated purpose of the mentoring
The consultant stands back, evaluates a situation, then
tells you the problem and how to fix it
The coach stands with you, and helps you identify the
challenges, then works with you to turn challenges into victories and hold
you accountable to reach your desired
goals